大家觉得: 友谊是什么?在我的观念里，友谊是一种来自双向关系的情感, 既双方共同凝结的情感。 友谊, 它是一种美妙的东西, 可以让你在失落的时候变得高兴起来, 可以让你走出苦海,去迎接新的人生。它就像一种你无法说出的, 又可以感到快乐无比的东西。 友谊是人生最有价值的精神财富。没有了友谊,你将变得孤单, 没有了友谊, 你将会失去你的自信, 没有了友谊, 你的财富将失去金色的光环。然而, 朋友间必须是患难相济的, 经不起考验的不算是真正的友谊。因为,友谊的最珍贵之处就在于此:在朋友需要的时候。真诚地去帮助朋友排除烦恼, 化解郁闷, 树立自信和克服困难。
我向往的友谊是这样:彼此都不需要拼命在对方面前表现很厉害的样子,聊天时可以畅所欲言, 不要想好了台词再说。在我最困难的时候, 可以雪中送炭, 在我成功的时候, 可以和我一起分享胜利和喜悦。在我悲伤无助的时候, 可以给我安慰与关怀。
在上海枫叶我就遇到自己向往的友谊, 那是我和小白的友谊。虽然我们只认识了三个月, 但是时间并不代表什么我们俩天天在一起形影不离, 就像一对连体婴儿一样。只要看到了我也就能看到小白, 只要看到她，后面跟着的一定是我。 在学习上我遇到不会的问题, 小白总会像小老师一样细心的跟我讲解, 一遍又一遍不厌其烦的重复着直到我会为止。课余时间我们总爱在一起阅读, 生活上我们也是互相帮助的对象。
巴金先生曾经说过:友谊是生命中的一盏明灯, 离开了它, 生命就没有光彩, 离开它, 生命就不会开花结果。友谊是一棵树, 要用真诚和挚爱去灌溉, 用信任和宽容去栽培。 嫉妒和猜疑是毒药, 会使友谊之树根枯叶焦, 失去生命的绿色。友谊是推心置腹的交谈, 是默默无声的关怀。友谊是不求回答的付出, 是无拘无束的平等交流。 友谊是理解, 是尊重, 是从一颗开放的心走进另一颗开放的心。 友谊是驱使孤独和绝望的动力。 所以如果你想拥有一份真挚的友谊，请你真诚对待他人！
The Friendship
Now let me ask you a question: What is friendship? Friendship is a kind of emotion from two-way relationships when both sides condensatetogether. Friendship, it is a wonderful thing, It can make you happy when you are lost, It can let you out of the sea of suffering, to meet a new life. It`s like something you can`t explain, and you can feel so happy. Friendship is the most valuable spiritual wealth in life. Without friendship, you will become lonely, without friendship, you will lose yourself-confidence, without friendship, your wealth will lose the aura of qold. Nevertheless, friendship between friends must be a combination of benefits and hardships. Itis not a truefriendship that can not stand the test. Because this is the most precious thing about friendship: when friends need it. With sincere friendship to help them get rid of their troubles, relieved depression, build up self-confidence andovercome difficulties.
My longing for friendship is like this: each other do not need to desperately behave in front of the other, speak freely, they do not think about the lines to say again.In my most difficult times ,l can send charcoal in the snow. When I succeed, I can share the victory and joy with you. When l am sad and helpless, you can give me comfort and care.
l also met such friendship in Maple Leaf, which is my friendship with Xiao bai, we only know each other for three months, time does not meanthat we are inseparable from each other everyday, just like a couple of conjoined babies. As long as you see me, you can see Xiao Bai, as long as you see that she must be followed byme.in learning, as long as l will not meet , Xiao baiwill be as careful as a little teacher to explainto me, repeated over and over until will, afterschool time we always love to read together.in life we are also the object of mutual help.
Mr. Ba Jin once said: Friendship is a beaconin life. Without it, life will not be glorious. Withoutit, life will not blossom and bear fruit. Friendshipis a tree that needs to be irrigated with sincerityand love and cultivated with trust and tolerance.Jealousy and suspicion are poisons, which canmake the roots of friendship withered and theleaves burnt and lose the green of life. Friendshipis a heart-to-heart conversation, a silentconcern. Friendship is not an answer-seeking effort, it is an unrestrained and equal exchange. Friendship is understanding, respect, from an open heart into another open heart. Friendshipis the driving force of loneliness and despair.So if you want to have a sincere friendship, youshould be sincereto others .
